The fluids are a last resort before restraint, my beer thumbs didn't really get that message across well. Actually I'd probably submit victory if he was still bumping into me, piss-soaked and spit-filled eyeballs non-withstanding. Pretty hard to go up against someone that ****ing alpha
I read up on it, apparently the kid before this was expelled from school when he threatened a teacher and a student with a knife, then after this video the mother edited it and cut it only showing the part where her kid gets shoved down and then wrote the man's name and address and posted it online, this vid was put up online as way to defend himself and see what really happened. Tldr; horrible parenting Also this kid really should be in juvi. He's repeatedly violent and the parent seems to be encouraging that type of behavior
Parental overprotection is rampant nowadays. People on average are having less kids, and doing it when they're older. You're less careful when you're young, and you can't possibly overprotect 5 kids at once. There's this saying, that the good mother necessarily fails, which means that it's actually a good thing when the mother occasionally screws up or loses sight of her kids so that they can learn the hard lessons of life amongst themselves. You know, like talk **** get hit.
I love how there's this whole group of adults that take pride in the fact they got spanked as kids. Like we get it, better values when you were growing up but you were still a little **** that got spanked so don't act all high and mighty.
I got spanked with whatever was around. Coat hangars, hot wheels tracks, belts, sandals... I turned out fine.
It means your parents didn't tolerate your bullshit so you don't carry that **** into adulthood. There are a lot of parents who don't lay a finger on their child who end up being pieces of **** as adults. It's not that all children need physical punishment because some behave just fine, but for the ones that do, wagging your finger and saying don't do it again doesn't really do much When I hear that another guy got physical punishment for the most part I know he has good discipline and can control himself
I told my mom when I was 4 that I didn't like it when she hit me and asked if she could take away my toys or put me in time out instead. Since then the only time I've been hit by anyone was in 3rd grade. Not saying it's everyone's cup of tea but it worked for me
The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom. First your earthly father, then your Heavenly Father Or something
I don't think spanking is the right way, either. The kids need discipline, but not a whip/cane/ruler/belt/hockeystick/golfclub/clotheshanger - what does this teach the child about conflict and authority management? This is the biggest problem I've seen when working with troubled kids, they go straight to a violent solution to the problem, getting in people's faces. It is next to impossible to handle in a 'calm, reasonable, classroom setting' - these kids do need the rough and tumble, but they need to learn discipline and self-restraint through it. I'm all for firm grips if a kid steps out of line like ^^^, but they need to be reasoned with, too - and if they can't be, then you hold until they can. Not many children act like this kid, its a special case for sure, he needed restraining
I'm not sure about the others but I interpreted it just fine. As people have said it varies from child to child and parent to parent. The bulk of the spankings I got as a child could have easily been solved with a conversation. That doesn't mean that I didn't earn a couple and who knows if those ones couldn't still have been solved with a rational conversation. The problem is that many children aren't willing to listen or simply don't want to learn. Whether it be at that moment or in general. In these times an ass whooping can really open ears and minds. It's amazing how quickly the mind opens up to information when trying to understand how best to avoid that pain again. This is where a parent needs to choose thiers words wisely because it will become ingrained, and it's best if it's not the ramblings of a crazed parent. If you're going to spank your child make sure you've calmed down enough to get your speech together for afterwards. The real problem with physical punishment is that there was no training to understand how to use it best. This led to many frustrated parents spanking children out of their own frustration instead of using it as a teaching moment. Sometimes this got so out of hand with parents just blindly spanked their children for anything and everything they did. For those parents who already suffered violent tendencies spankings became a gateway to true acts of assault. In the end in the interest of child safety we have blocked all Acts of physical punishment to children. Unfortunately I don't believe that this is the correct solution. I feel it's best to educate parents on how to deal with children up to and including the potential for a spanking. Most people don't seem to realize that improperly using the carrot can be just as detrimental as improperly using the stick. To reiterate my response to @Dunco , parents in their lack of knowledge and experience often spanked their children blindly, thus just because you got an ass whooping doesn't mean you were a ittle ****. Either way we still got a solid lesson on how easy it is to feel pain and that we didn't want to feel it again in the future.