Your wife/girlfriend got pregnant, and only one of them (her or the baby) could be saved? Which would you save? You have to think about this carefully, think from both points of view. I got into this debate in school, and it lasted hours. I'm not going to tell you my opinion, I'm saving that for later... Just keep this in mind though, most of the girls you'd ask would say they'd want you to save the baby.
I would maybe save the baby, because you don't know what that baby could accomplish. It's a very hard desicion. If this happened in real life, I would get an abortion, if that saved my wife. The more the baby is in the wife's womb, the more you become attached to it. It all depends. I cannot decide since if is not really happening.
I would choose to save my girlfriend. I think that the baby would be too much of a burden as a teen and it was just remind me of her.
I would have to say my girlfriend/wife because I will have already worked so hard for that relationship and we will have gone through things already and as amazing as a child would be, I couldn't lose someone that close to me.
Well, I'm a girl, but if I hate to choose between my friend or her baby I would chose my friend because you can have another baby(possibly) but you couldn't get the person with the baby back.
This is essentially a hypothetical situationt used in arguments for/against abortion. The issue of whether the infants life is more 'sacred' and 'valuable' than the mother's. For me, it would depend on the circumstances I suppose- but I would lean towards saving the wife/girlfriend rather than the infant, simply because I've the relationship already established with her.
The girl. Whether or not it's the right thing to do isn't the issue. I don't have any emotional attachments to it and I see no reason why I'd choose the baby. Even if I knew it'd be best to save the baby I bet I could reason my way to not saving the baby.
Nitrous could reason his way out of anything. Even the destruction of the entire world. I wouldn't make the decision, duh. It's the girlfriend/wife's choice because it's her life and her baby. If anti-abortionists want to call that murder well whoop-de-doo who gives a damn what they think, anyway. You can't go through life without some "sin" so to speak.
I would save the girlfriend. Not only can you have another child but I think that growing up with one parent could be difficult for the child later on.
wow, your a girl, srry i could of guess u were a guy by your sigs, any way back on topic, sort of like someone said already, i would build a time machine, and save them both!
Wife It's not even close. My wife would be the one I would choose. The baby has not experienced a single second of life and would not even notice the transition from pitch black womb to eternal sleep. Losing the baby would be a horrible trauma that, because she would still be around, my wife and I could go through together. A human being that has experienced life, built relationships, and can experience the fear of death should be saved. An unborn baby is not equal to, and definitely not greater than a fully developed human. All of that being said, I would have to listen to the wishes of my wife. If she was absolutely insistent that the baby should live instead of her I would have to respect her wishes. It's her body, her life, and her choice.
Okay, seeing as there are very few mixed opinions, I'm gonna share my answer soon... Spoiler Spoiler Spoiler Spoiler Spoiler Spoiler Spoiler Spoiler Spoiler Spoiler Spoiler I'd give up the choice to my girlfriend/wife because I couldn't deal with the emotional stress of the situation on my own. Despite the fact many of you say you would have no emotional attachment to the baby before it's born, that's probably not true. That's why this is a hard question to answer. You'd need to be in that situation to actually know what you'd do.
girl 100%. if i had to choose between being a single father, or adopting, i would choose adopt if i wanted a kid. i mean, imagine how guilty i would feel marrying another woman when the love of my life died. plus i dont know how the new women would treat the baby. honestly, it makes more sense to get her tubes tied off after the abortion and then adopting.