Debate Corporal Punishment: Beat Your Kids! Teach Them Discpline!

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by Vinny, Oct 16, 2008.

  1. Vinny

    Vinny Ancient
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    As of right now, I am simply stating facts. I am pro Corporal Punishment (it was how I was raised, and I stand behind it) but I am posting facts for both to keep the playing level even.

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    Legality of corporal punishment in Europe

    ██ Corporal punishment prohibited in schools and the home
    ██ Corporal punishment prohibited in schools only
    ██ Corporal punishment not prohibited

    I will post my debate after first response.
     
  2. Nitrous

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    From a psychological stand point. Positive action, positive reward - Negative action, negative consequence is the most effective at teaching children. However, taken to the extremes of abuse it can be highly detrimental and I feel those children who are given more than a negative consequence should have some form of legal defense. Not as something they would possibly use, but as a deterrent for abusive parents.

    I think parents have the best intention, they just don't know when to stop. Slapping a child on the mouth is a good example. At my work a woman came in and did this to a 6 year old girl, which I find unacceptable.
     
  3. Vinny

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    Personally, I feel that Corporal Punishment in Public is the most effective way. It makes you learn to be ashamed of your said behavior and is encouragement to stop.

    Eventually as you grow up, it becomes less effective. But if you instill the fear at an early age, it's most definitely an effective method of parenting.
     
  4. RabidZergling

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    You should not learn by fear- to control someone by fear is not to control them at all. They would eventually submit to you, yes, because you establish dominance, but the child doesn't truly learn what is wrong. It is best just to let the consequences drive their actions- better preparation for later in life. Instead of hurting a child for, lets say, whining in the mall, you make them realize that by whining they are doing nothing but reducing their chances of getting what they want. This causes them to think- how can I get what I want? By doing the opposite- being polite and kind. If you beat them, all you show is that whining means you get hurt, and they don't act any better because of it, they just don't act worse either, and don't learn the valuable critical thinking skills that they should.
     

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