Deliberately missing the point. Literally gave you a movie that you have seen. That's a source, because its a personal story. Both of these, I admitted in my post that it was a particularly extreme one, used to illustrate the effects it can have on an individual, without mentioning the effects it has on the greater society around that individual, the values they hold and act on. The incoherence of your position is palpable.
@Xandrith i can get behind some of what you’re saying. But aside of unplanned parenthood I have to call bullshit on the outcomes you listed from casual sex. Can casual sex lead to divorce? Sure. Is it anywhere close to the top of the list of causes of divorce? Absolutely not.
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I never wanna find myself agreeing with someone who says "the incoherence of your position is palpable". Like no offence,but seriously... I get using big words to sound clever but that is just too far.
No your point was invalid. I would definitely agree that ****ing hordes of people and selling those videos for the whole world to see would leave a persons life in tatters. That isn't even in the same realm as casual sex. If it's too hard for you to understand maybe you should look up the differences between the words "casual" and "professional".
I never claimed that it was the main cause of divorce. I claimed that casual sex culture - one that glorifies the destruction of traditional monogamy - is a huge reason for our increasing divorce rates. That isn't the same thing at all. Once again people are skimming over this conversation and hitting me with the good ol' "so what you're saying is..."
I have casual sex in my mind all day every day. I don't do it in real life because I'm worried it might ruin the experiences I imagine.
I’m not talking about only the sex, OK? I’m talking about the psychological and societal effects of engaging in casual sexual encounters with multiple people. It doesn’t have to be 5000. It can be 20, or only 1 - the principle is that casual sex, non-committal sexual relations outside of a marriage or otherwise very serious relationship are damaging to the individual, the society, and the culture, as their acceptance is a result of irresponsible sexual and consumer activity many many decades ago.
I have no idea what that word means. Sorry for some cynical comments but I will not reply anymore on this topic. I haven't seen anything to change my mind about this and the guys on the otherside think the same cause we're saying the same things as 3 days ago. Agree to disagree. Muller out.
Please explain to me the casual sex culture. Keep in mind for me to agree with your point casual sex will have to be the cause and not the effect. The huge increase in divorce rates are because now you can do it without having the entire town shame you. In the past people suffered in misery for the rest of their lives because of a decision often made before they turned twenty five. That's barely long enough to choose who you want to be let alone who you wanting to be with forever. Even if that is not the case, marriage can be a painful eye opener to who you have actually chosen. There's also a lot that can happen in a persons life to change who they are, must a person stay with the other forever if one chooses a path the other don't wish to follow? I mean no disrespect but I can't help but feel you have very little experience in the point you're trying to argue. Proof? I think to take this any further I'm going to need both of you to give me your definition of casual sex because I can't help but feel you are arguing the extremes, not the norms. Anyone who's spending their days swiping right and having one night stands with absolutely no interest in finding a relationship, is an extremists. Once you get to that point there needs to be a better definition.
Agreed, sometimes divorce is a good thing and more healthy for the relationship between parents and children as a whole. How many women were married into abusive relationship. Or how many people married and later turned to being miserable together. Of course having two parents who love each other is the perfect scenario for raising children, but this isn’t fairy tale land.
I'm not a twitter guy with 1000+ followers but I still thought someone would have seen and liked my post