Casual sex is not the catalyst for everything wrong in this world. An increase in casual sex is a result of a the massive decrease in risk of unplanned pregnancy coupled with a self indulgent society. Sex isn't ruining us. If anything basic sex (I won't argue sex's dark underbelly) is healthy for society. https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/guide/sex-and-health#2 These benefits are applicable to all not just couples. There are however unhealthy (mentally unstable) people out there that are better off abstaining. Before you start on it, a self indulgent society doesn't start with casual sex. I would argue kissing your childs ass instead of properly punishing them is probably one of the biggest factors. Another would be with society being able to easily access things that were once wistful dreams we are becoming the spoiled princes and princesses that we always hated in fairy tails. I can't help but feel like you guys are living in a delusional world were every act of sex with your significant other is a holistic act. *****, please. That's the talk of a few of the unstable women that I've dodged sleeping with over the years. I could literally see crazy dancing in their eyes. You're welcome to have that relationship if you please. If you have a strong sense of self then the act of sex is quite literally just sex. The weaker you are as a person the more likely that sex will affect you and or your mental stability whether it is in a relationship or not. Further more, I'm not saying that every act of sex is just sex or that the act doesn't broaden with someone you care for, just that there are many reasons to have sex and love isn't a prerequisite for all of them. Again I feel the need to add the side note that I have always been a person in tune with my heart especially as it pertains to the matters of sex when it's with the person I love. I'm well aware of the subtlety of true romance and often caught taking long glances at the one I love, absorbing their face and it's subtle nuances while letting my heart calm. Through experience I've learned the difference between love and lust and was the better for it. In short, casual sex is only for the mentally stable. If you're not one of them, please abstain.
We're on completely different wavelengths. For me, this has nothing to do with my personal experience or even yours. Single motherhood rates, divorce rates, and abortion rates, all of which are a direct result of casual sex culture, is what I care about. People keep saying that "sex is just sex" but the literature and the aforementioned consequences just doesn't suggest that at all. You guys can just say that it's my age, where I'm from, that I'm a virgin loser, that I'm delusional or whatever, but nobody has actually presented an alternative scenario by which all of these unprecedented phenomena occur. Until then, I'll just keep thinking about this 2v2 tournament and how I'm going to embarrass multi on stream.
I just don't buy that divorce rates, single motherhood and abortion ALL boil down to casual sex alone. How is that even measureable? That's way too easy, I think it's a combination of all sort of things. I mean if science and/or psychology are just scratching the surface how are some of you absolutely convinced? As for abstinance, not a problem with that at all. If works for you, that's fine. Men scan almost every female body form subconsiously in half a second to see if it's a possible mate. It's basic biology. How do you deal with those feelings, emotions, etc in your changing body and brain? I'm really asking here. It can have benefits. Boosting self esteem, fun, excitement, personal growth, becoming an adult is a journey and I feel this belongs in there. Anyway, it sure was interesting to read and discuss. Not sure why I'm jumping back in. I'm not trying to be an ass. But hey, I'll watch you **** Multi
If it must ****, it will. If it will ****, it might. If it might ****, it won't. This is the law Edit: Also no one is factoring in that dolphins masturbate with dead fish heads, and as such I can't take anything anyone is saying at face value
So as I'm thinking, "well I'm to get Indian food," I can't help but wonder if there is anywhere in the world they say, "Well I'm off to get Canadian food", and I ponder what that would look like. Is it just a Poutine shop with Back Bacon and Maple Syrup?
It doesnt lead to anything if neither party has any intention of committing to each other. Single mothers and abortions are the result of irresponsible sex, not casual sex. They chose poor partners, and they didnt take the appropriate precautions. There is less gun violence with less guns. Its not really debateable. Every country with stricter gun laws is the proof. Thats not what i suggested. You misinterpreted my use of the word should. I find your stance ridiculous and short-sighted. There are issues in society, but the solution isnt simply ‘less casual sex’.